No segment of society is more
steadfast,in advocating blessed
silence than the cowboy crowd.
Perhaps the most succinct expression
of that sentiment comes in
the old cowboy saying, "Never
miss a chance to shut up." There's
also this, expressed in another old
saying: "No one is as interested in
what you're saying as you are."
What's funny about that is that it
is just another way of telling a person
to shut up.
We have here an outlook that flies in the
face of modern day, communication-iseverything,
talk-it-to-death togetherness.
What are we to make of it?
I'd never had an answer to give until I
ran across something from an ancient
philosopher-Aristotle, to be specific. But
finding something in philosophy seems
fitting, because cowboy life is a philosophical
thing.
I was 41 when we launched this publication
and had never read philosophy at
any time. I've read plenty since. The
cowboy world nudges you in that direction,
I believe.
I've been struck by the striking similarities
and parallels between the cowboy outlook
and just good, solid, philosophical
inquiry-especially the thinking of the
classical philosophers. (For one such
insight, see our article "Socrates Was a
Cowboy," [Nov./Dec. 2004] posted online
at americancowboy.com/socrates.)
So it was with interest that I contemplated
something in a book edited by a past
contributor to this periodical. Denis Boyles oversaw the writing that went into
Everything You Need to Know About
Philosophy (1999), and it was there that I
found something very cowboy-like.
It came in a remark about a particular
virtue, moderation. Moderation can be
seen as one aspect of a larger matter-that
of temperance, or self-mastery. Would
anyone dispute that the Cowboy Way is
one of self-mastery, or self-control-the
trait of being in control of oneself and living
in conformity to set standards?
The book stated: "Acquiring it [virtue]
is one thing: passing it on to others who
need it is another. According to Aristotle,
virtue can be learned but not taught.
Aristotle theorized that one acquired the
habit of virtue as a result of being in the
company of good people who habitually
choose in moderation. Yet modeling
works in some people and not in others. So
how people come to learn virtue from others
is a mystery. This much is clear,
though: People do not acquire the habit of
virtue from anyone's teaching it to them.
Learning the habit. is a matter of character
development."
Let's boil this down: some things are not
learned by mere tutelage. Some things are
learned wordlessly.
The remark by Aristotle, then, might give
us a glimpse into the workings of the
Cowboy Way. We know, already, that cowboys-
the strong, silent type-perpetuate
their own set of virtues, and that in some
cases, perhaps most, this is done wordlessly.
And that, it would seem, might have
some application to problems that reside
in the rest of the world.
One message we've shared here for years
is that the Cowboy Way is something that
has meaning beyond its core devotees-
those devotees being cowboys and all who
admire them and the values they represent.
But the point is that the values have meaning
beyond this circle of adherents. By "beyond"
I mean extending to all the rest of the country,
or the rest of the world, for that matter.
Then let us set forth a principle. The
Cowboy Way has meaning-has its most
impactful, most lasting meaning-insofar
as it extends beyond cowboys themselves.
To the degree that it extends beyond them,
it gives meaning back to them. If it does
not accomplish this, it is a sham and a all places and at all times, among all people
everywhere. When you've stopped saying
that the Cowboy Way is good for all human
beings, then you've stopped saying that
the Cowboy Way is good for the cowboy
world, too. We mustn't confuse the mere
trappings with the true essence. The
clothes, the gear, the livestock, the profession,
the talk-these are the externals.
They have their place in that cowboy society,
but that society's ideals must extend
beyond its own members or else be dismissed
as trivialities.
So if the Cowboy Way has meaning
beyond itself, and yet the Cowboy Way is
often spread wordlessly, then how can it
be propagated?
Maybe we cannot say how with certainty,
but as Aristotle indicated, it is
indeed propagated. And I don't think
Aristotle meant by any kind of written
messaging-not even by those Lone celebration of the National Day of the
American Cowboy and trust that others
are doing the same thing, and that by sheer
numbers, and sheer devotion to a Code
that is essentially an unwritten Code-
and that is exactly what it is-you are helping
to send a message that (A) this nation
needs to get back to what made it great,
and (B) the guys in the white hats are the
ones to lead the way-and to lead by
example more than by talk.
If enough Americans rally to these
events, a message will go forth. The nation
will notice. It need not be heavy on words.
What makes people notice is action and
sacrifice. Both of those are apparent when
you stand up and are counted.
So stand up, neighbor, and let your community
see that you put some ways above
others. For more information on the
National Day of the American Cowboy, log
on to cowboyday.com.